A Quick Intro to Prostate Massage

There is a myth that only women can have intense, whole body orgasms. In truth, guys can have orgasms as explosive as anything females experience by adopting an adventurous spirit and stimulating their prostate. Not only do men report mind-boggling orgasms, some research indicates that prostate massage can reduce male health problems and the risk of impotence. Here’s a quick guide to going after the “guy’s G-spot.”

Getting Ready

In case things aren’t clear, prostate massage is a form of anal play. For many straight men, this can be intimidating or off-putting. You will need to realize that you have one of the largest nerve bundles in your entire body in your rectum—it feels good no matter what your sexuality. Also, if you are in a loving or open-minded relationship, your girlfriend can help. The transgressive nature of the act is actually a huge turn on.

Be sure to wash up thoroughly, and ensure that your nails are trimmed. Turn on an adult movie or engage in some foreplay—when you are aroused, your prostate swells and play is both easier and more rewarding.

Finding Your Prostate

Your prostate is the size of a chestnut, and is located just behind your perineum (the area between your anus and testicles). Once you get into yourself, it is a couple of inches inside, just at the base of where your penis goes inside your body. If you are aroused it should be noticeable—not unlike a woman’s clitoris. Exploration is key: a little bit of experimentation and you’ll find the spot, along with perhaps a few other places it feels good to touch.

Work Your Way Into It

Lubricants are vital—they make things easier, more comfortable and safer. Begin by playing with the area around your anus and your perineum—these are very sensitive areas, and playing with pressure and touching while you masturbate will feel good and get you ready. Apply light pressure on the outside of your anus, playing with its exterior, exploring. When you are ready, press into it as if you were pushing an elevator button and take your time. Keep exploring until you can get three fingers or so in there, all stimulating your prostate just the way you like.

Get Creative

At this point you should really be into the sensations opened up by prostate massage. Try masturbating or being stimulated by a partner while one of you stimulates your prostate—it is an intense feeling. And dildos, vibrators and butt plugs aren’t just for women—with toys you can have explosive orgasms that’ll make your wife or girlfriend jealous. Experiment and remember there are no rules. In no time you’ll be staying healthy and having sensations you never thought possible!

Prostate massage: Q&A

Q: I am quite nervous about using this device because the thought of anal penetration frightens me. Yet, many of the testimonials I’ve read demonstrate that lots of guys have better sexual experiences with prostate massage. Could you please explain how prostate stimulation can be a heterosexual experience?

A: It is understandable that you would have some initial misgivings to prostatic massage, as most men have received scant information about the many benefits that this kind of stimulation can provide during intercourse. Regardless of sexual orientation, protaste stimulation can provide longer and better erections and very powerful orgasmic effects. Many men also make prostatic massage an integral part of the sex act, often having their female partners assist in the stimulation – something many women are happy to do to improve the sexual experience. You will find that products, such as the Dr. Erector, can provide just the right amount of pressure and stimulation and are designed to take the worry and concern out of the how to stimulate prostate.

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